Stop Chasing Dead-End Situationships
I released relational patterns, healed old wounds, and shifted from an insecure to secure—and confident—attachment style. And I'm here to help you do the same.
I get it… relationships are hard. Trust me, I’ve been there. I count my blessings every day that a relational report card isn’t handed to knew potential matches. Here’s what mine would say:
Laura, 27 y.o. female (she/her/hers), currently single
First boyfriend: young love emerging from early childhood to an official relationship in high school, culminated in him cheating on her the night before senior prom and Laura losing her entire friend group as a result.
Second boyfriend: appeared to be “Prince Charming” until the emotional and physical abuse started, culminated in him leaving her, then unaliving himself months later after Laura moved to Italy to escape the cycle of abuse (yes, that really happened, and yes, I actually healed from it).
Third boyfriend: only dated him to prove to herself she could navigate a relationship following abuse. He displayed a disabling level of anxiety and could not enter a “crowded” space (think: half-empty dive bar) without having a panic attack. Culminated in them fighting about never leaving the house, him yelling, “I understand why your ex boyfriend killed himself,” and Laura leaving with minimal dignity and a slew of internalizations around his anxiety as a reflection of herself. Yes, that really did happen, too.
Fourth (and most recent) boyfriend: appeared to be a knight in shining armor simply because he was not abusive, given Laura’s previous relational history. Everything appeared to be going well, conversations about core values, expectations, and timelines were had very early on in the relationship, and all were in alignment until he got a new job and abandoned the relationship for his career by explaining, “I just have to do this for two years” (fast forward: it wasn’t two years, because he still hasn’t been promoted).
Why am I telling you all of this?
Because my story is important. I am living, breathing, and actively dating proof that it is possible to heal from past trauma, release unwanted patterns, and transform your relationships. You are capable of healthy and secure love, just like me.
I let go of anxious thought patterns that fueled feelings of loneliness and despair. I liberated myself from past traumas and the neural pathways that were created in distress. I even healed to the point of forgiveness. Yes, I forgive my abusive ex. I know—now—why he was the way that he was, and why he treated me the way he did. I understand, I empathize, and I forgive.
Though, I’ll admit, I’m having a hard time forgiving my most recent ex, because I truly felt I was doing everything “right.” But, that’s the thing… we can’t use logic to evaluate our relational patterns until we’ve first separated ourselves from the emotion.
That’s where I come in.
I am here to help you sort through your past and present relationships to make sense of the future. I am the objective, non-biased perspective that you need to create lasting change.
It is my job to transform your love life, and I won’t stop until you are exactly where you want to be. We’re saying goodbye 👋 to hot girl summer and calling in the summer of love 💕 But don’t worry, hot girl summer still exists during the summer of love… you’re still hot (and fun), but with boundaries and emotional availability. I’d argue that makes you hotter than ever before.
PSA: there’s only TWO SPOTS LEFT for the summer of love container! If you’re looking to transform your love life, I suggest you read through the information below and schedule a consultation ASAP to secure your spot 🤞
I’m currently recruiting for my 1:1 summer container. You’ll get:
And you’ll leave with:
Here’s what it looks like:
The container runs from June 6th until Friday, August 26th. That is exactly three months (or 12 weeks) of intentional commitment to your relational growth, leading to an immeasurable amount of transformation. You are quite literally starting the summer as you are currently, and ending an entirely new—and empowered—version of yourself. Now that is what I call a hot girl summer 🥵😮💨
Within those 12 weeks, you will schedule four 1:1 Zoom calls with me. These calls are 45-60 minutes in length. We’ll chat goals, strategy, and progress. You will walk away from every session with an objective reflection and actionable items for the weeks ahead.
You’ll also have access to weekly support via Voxer, a free messaging app. This will allow you to send quick updates and ask questions between 1:1 sessions. I’ll provide feedback via text or voice note ASAP (Mon-Fri). This will allow us to adjust goals and strategy as-needed throughout the process. Sometimes, clients make RAPID success, and we need to readjust early in the process to push further into transformation. I call this “leveling up,” and I know you’re capable 😉
I don’t like to agree to things without first knowing what I’m getting myself into, so I’d never expect you to do the same. In fact, I want to meet with you before Monday to determine if this container is a good fit for you. I created a link for you to schedule a quick (and free) 15-minute intro call with me here.
Let’s connect so I can learn more about you, tell you more about the container, and answer any questions you may have.
I also believe in transparency, so I am outlining the different pricing structures below. Note: all of my subscribers (that’s you 🥰) get an exclusive rate that was not offered to anyone beyond this email list. We LOVE discounts, right?!
Transparency of costs:
You will pay $3,000 (payment plans outlined below) for a $5,400 service. That’s a 48% discount 🤯
Pay in full: $3,000 payment, paid upon registration
2x payments: $1,500 payment, paid upon registration and at the start of week 4 (June 27th)
3x payments: $1,000 payment, paid upon registration, at the start of week 4 (June 27th), and at the start of week 8 (July 25th)
Still not sure if a container is right for you? I’ve put together some pros/cons to working within a container versus pay-per-session 1:1s. See below:
Reminder: there’s only TWO SPOTS LEFT for the summer of love container! If you’re looking to transform your love life, I suggest you read through the information below and schedule a consultation here ASAP to secure your spot 🤞
I am so ready to embark on this next chapter with you! Let’s shift from anxious or insecure attachment into secure and stable love 💕
Note: I am so grateful for all of you. Your support means the world to me, and it motivates me every 👏 single 👏 day 👏 to continue disrupting modern dating culture and revolutionizing through conscious coupling. Thank you—seriously.